IT’S YOUR LIFE; YOU MAKE THE RULEs.

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If you are in pain from your own or someone else’s addiction; I can teach you how to build healthier relationships, gain insight and show up differently in your relationship with yourself and others through my one-on-one coaching program: The Happiness Recovery System.

  • Are you feeling frustrated, exhausted and misunderstood?
  • Are you struggling to get through the day?
  • Are your needs at the bottom of the list?

If you are sober or supporting someone in recovery and are on a hamster wheel just moving through the days, now is the time to step up your recovery.

The balance wheel of life is supposed to be round, but trying to balance recovery, self-care, boundaries, work, family, life . . . that wheel can get flat. You can’t move forward on a flat wheel; which is why The Happiness Recovery System is designed to help you get your wheel round so you can easily roll through life.

I created this program with you in mind whether you are in recovery from addiction or addicted to the addicted. The Happiness Recovery System combines evidenced-based tools and my own personal recovery strategies to support you on your discovery journey.

I know how you feel. In 1998, when I achieved sobriety, I began a journey of self-discovery, learning to understand my feelings, desires, and needs. I realized I was grappling with anger and unhappiness, often prioritizing others over myself and struggling to establish healthy boundaries. To maintain my sobriety and cultivate a more fulfilling life, I had to focus on my own well-being, even with family members still facing addiction. This journey involved significant effort and therapy, leading me to leave a 22-year marriage and pursue graduate studies to become a therapist and addiction specialist. While my family struggled with the changes I made, I created a program designed specifically for you, drawing from both my professional expertise and personal experiences.

Licensed Therapist & Addiction Specialist

In my unique one-on-one coaching sessions, you will learn through proven evidenced-based methods how to improve all areas of your life. I have been on this personal and professional journey of recovery since 1998. I’ve learned recovery must be a priority; as a licensed therapist, addiction specialist, woman in recovery and author, I understand that you can live a happier, more peaceful life in recovery through applying “The Happiness Recovery System.” I am available and in contact with you in between our weekly sessions for extra support.

 You are responsible for your own happiness. Let me show you how to create new rules to live a life beyond your wildest dreams.

Get started today with your COMPLIMENTARY 30-minute. Blueprint call where we’ll make a strategic plan to live a more successful, rewarding life.

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In this simple and powerful book, I reveal methods for true healing and growth that will enable you to end your struggle with boundaries, overcome the past, and change the course of your life. Perfect read for prioritizing self-care and healthy boundaries!
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Thanks to the honesty and transparency of the author, Wendy Behar, this book is a great example of the life changes you can make when you put yourself first. Wendy makes this work feel so accessible and exciting, when it otherwise oftentimes feels daunting. Self-help for the win!

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